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Bulli:
Guy, what do you do? I think you must have a very straightforward way of life which is by far the best.

Smo, hope you find the answer to your questions. Life has a way of showing you whats best. Like RRB says not prying but specific advice is hard to offer without any idea whats wrong.

I have found a few times when things really felt like i had the world on my shoulders. I found that worrying about it was the worst thing i could do. It just added to the pressure.
I read a lot of philosphy and find that complicated answers are not the way forward. Try and get a little time to yourself, sit down and be quiet and listen to what you have to say. Its usually the best way forward.

sounds like Balls i know, but it works for me.

NiceBlueWellies:
Guy has anything but a straightforward way of life!!!!!!!!  :wink:

What works for one, doesn't necessarily work for another, unfortunatley.  You have to find your own path in life and take the rough with the smooth.  And a lot of us have gone down the rocky path far too much for our own liking. :?

There will always be regrets in life, and NOTHING can turn the clock back.  You just have to look forward and take the path that you think you can live with.  Jobs are just jobs.  Family is VERY important.  Look after each other and they will hopefully look after you too in difficult times.  Friends come and go, vehicles ultimately break, money is not the be all and end all, health is to cherish - money can't make you better!

There is ALWAYS someone worse off than you, even though it may not seem like it.

Guy90:

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I work for the goverment.

I have enough money for the lifestyle I want, I have (finally) a decent Land Rover and I job I enjoy and am good at.

I'm a happy bunny!!!

Guy90:

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Er! That's not right :shock:

Cate:
Hey Smo, we all get [!Expletive Deleted!] thrown at us, and we can wallow in it or get up. When I was up to my knees in it looking for a way out I concentrated on the things that mattered most,
firstly, ME! without the me I wasn't going to get anywhere, so look after yourself.
secondly, the people round you who care for you, not the 'sometimes mates', but the real friends/partners/family who are probably wading in and trying to offer you a hand. They are so important.

Everything else can be put aside, work, the state of the garden, the bathroom tiling..... its all inconsequential when it comes down to the real things in life.
Unclutter your mind of trivialities, take a deep breath and look at each part as a separate entity. If you need professional help, go get it, thats what they are there for.
And don't forget, there is life the other side of the fog. Best of luck.

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