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totaly gutted.
Sharpshooter:
Sorry to hear your bad news. As in most cases with things like this.
Just remember, if things get to much, you have lots of friends to turn to.
I have had bad things happen to me, including my parents seperation when i was young. And i needed my friends more than ever. I just wish i had the club availiable at the time.
Chin up and you will know what to do when the time comes.
Jim-Willy:
Bad news Matey, i'll buy You a pint at 'clog.
Miniman:
Yeh ya better be going to clog still.....
PM Sent
att:
I don`t have any miracle answer or resolution to your situation, I just know, reading between the lines that this is very hard for you.
I was in a similar situation some 10 years ago, though my wife did not have cancer.....Well, apart from me, I guess I was the Cancer!
I ended up having counselling and it was good, very good, however, i feel your needs will obviously be different to mine at the time.
I studied to be a counsellor myself, so I understand to a certain degree the anguish that you are going through, though not in the same way that you are, it is such a personal thing to have to go through and I feel that putting yourself in her shoes may bring a little clarity to the situation for yourself.
You need to listen to yourself, distinguish waht your needs are and act accordingly, do what you need to do to keep yourself sane and safe, whilst at the same time being respective to the needs of your wife and children.
Having children and being married, you may have forgotten where that place is (your safe and sane place).....You may need to re-discover.
I just know that you need to be yourself and healthy of body and mind before you can help others effectively.
I may be talking crap, so feel free to tell me so.......Everyone in the world is different and thus has different needs, so it is difficult to offer advice or indeed wrong in many instances.
blade:
my advice is to give her some space but let her know your there at the end of the day its her choice i just hope it all works out for you and the kids
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